Do not worry about what you are going to say or how you will say it; when the time comes, you will be given what you will say. ? Matthew 10:19

Like most moms, I taught my two boys when they were toddlers to say ?thank you.?When they forgot, like most moms, I asked them, ?What will you say?? And like robots, they replied, ?Thank you.?
      One time, my eldest shared some candy with his little brother. Little brother did not say thank you, so big brother asked, ?What will you say?? And, like a robot, little brother replied, ?thank you.?
       Saying niceties is easy once you get the hang of it. What can be difficult is saying notso- nice things, like pointing out people?s mistakes or faults they are not aware they are committing. It is a problem particularly among us Filipinos because very much a part of our culture is maintaining smooth interpersonal relationship (SIR). That is, we will not say someone is wrong because it is more important for us not to offend.
      I am a manager and my constant challenge is to correct an erring subordinate without being offensive, or, if I am the one being persecuted, to defend myself without being obnoxious. I bungle the job when I fail to call upon the Holy Spirit to guide me on what to say and how to say it. Saintcha

REFLECTION:
Do we use words to build relationships or break them?

Lord, my mouth speaks what my heart is full of. So renew my heart, that what I say are words of love and wisdom coming only from You.

G O S P E L

Matthew 10:17-22

Discipleship will always mean being ready to make sacrifices. At the very least, we need to be willing to sacrifice our own desires and place them second to the will of God. Some Christians have been called to make the sacrifice of their life in the form of actual martyrdom. This is an incredibly strong witness to the power of the Gospel to change our lives. However, most of us are called to the daily martyrdom of surrendering our lives to the will of God in all of the various things that make up our day. Let us pray for the grace to live for Jesus in all that we do and say.

17 Beware of people, for they will hand you over to courts and scourge you in their synagogues, 18 and you will be led before governors and kings for my sake as a witness before them and the pagans. 19 When they hand you over, do not worry about how you are to speak or what you are to say. You will be given at that moment what you are to say. 20 For it will not be you who speak but the Spirit of your Father speaking through you. 21 Brother will hand over brother to death, and the father his child; children will rise up against parents and have them put to death. 22 You will be hated by all because of my name, but whoever endures to the end will be saved.
  
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READ THE BIBLE IN ONE YEAR 2John/3John/Jude

Yesterday we celebrate the Solemnity of the Lord?s Nativity. The Christmas season has just begun. But today, I feel almost sinful to celebrate and be merry. We remember today the death of the first Christian martyr, Stephen.
      Stephen was one of the seven deacons who helped the apostles. But he preached like one of the apostles too. The Acts of the Apostles gives us a glimpse on his character: ?Filled with faith and with the Holy Spirit? and was ?full of fortitude.? He was stoned to death outside Jerusalem and died while praying for his executioners. The Acts of the Apostles provides a detailed report on his martyrdom except one thing. It does not say that he was executed on the day following the annual celebration of Christmas.
      Can this feast be a ?kill joy? in the midst of the Christmas revelries? Of course not. It is rather good that we celebrate the feast of the first Christian martyr immediately as the Christmas season begins. It keeps our feet on the ground.
      So quickly after Christmas we speak of a martyr of death, of dissension. We are reminded that the holiday is an idealized parenthesis in our life. Right after the last Christmas greetings are said and the last Christmas gifts are sent, dirty politics, human rights violations and social inequalities return to the front pages of the dailies. This is the real setting of the Incarnation. This is the world that the Lord was born into. This is the world that killed Stephen. This is also the world to which the Lord sends us.
      It is not, of course, sinful to celebrate and be merry today. It is Christmas time. We must celebrate and make merry. It is the feast of St. Stephen. We salute our first martyr today. Fr. Bobby T.

REFLECTION QUESTION:
Aside from being the birthday of Jesus, what does Christmas mean to me?

Dearest Lord, despite the imperfections of our world, You chose to come and make Your dwelling with us. You even became one like us in all things but sin. Our perfect world did not make You imperfect. You have instead perfected our world. Like St. Stephen may we always give witness to You in life and in death. Amen.

St. Stephen, proto-martyr, pray for us.